I want to tell you about the best real estate transaction I have ever been a part of.
Before we entered into world missions, I was blessed to sell commercial real estate for nearly a decade.
I can remember my first big transaction- selling the former Circuit City building with my mentor Hammy Davis. Hammy, now deceased was larger than life, wildly successful, yet perhaps the most generous giver I have ever met.
For months we had no offers on the building, and then pure exhilaration ensued. Out of the blue we had multiple offers all in one day and got into a bidding war. I got to see my mentor Hammy, who is now deceased, work his magic. We got to call their corporate office and inform them we were going to sell the building way above the asking price.
Many years and transactions distanced from that, I now find myself living here in Nepal,
with my real estate career long behind me- or so I thought.
We met Francis and Riana after Mass one day here in Nepal. They, along with their 4
children have fled horrendous, bloody, and unmentionable Muslim persecution from their home country Pakistan. They achieved asylum refugee status and are now trying to rebuild their life.
Before they fled Pakistan by force, they were both owners and operators of their own hair
and beauty salon. They both cut hair and she did ladies cosmetics. They were really great at what they did, and they loved it. In an instant, they had to leave it all behind to preserve the safety of their family. Now they are here scrambling around trying to find work. Between the Covid-19 lockdowns which have essentially shut down all salons, and the little number of available jobs,
it’s nearly impossible for them to find an honest day’s work. They dream of moving somewhere like America or Canada where they can try to pursue their dreams, but that is most likely not areality for them.
Life is extremely challenging for them here in Nepal. The average minimum wage worker here makes roughly 500-800 Nepali Rupees per day, which is roughly $4-$6.50 per day or 50-90 cents per hour. But for them it’s even challenging to find meaningful labor. It’s really disheartening. Our family assists them each week with groceries and essential items, but they need so much more.
Pope John Paul II declares, “Work is a good thing for a man (or woman), a good thing for
his humanity, because through work man not only transforms nature, adapting it to his own needs, but he also achieves fulfillment as a human being and indeed, in a sense, becomes more ofa human being.” (Laborem Exercens No. 9).
Lacy and I had a wild idea one day. After prayer and discernment, we thought we would offer to help them start their own hair salon. When we mentioned this, their hearts and eyes came alive. It was like looking into the eyes of little kids – still filled with dreams, hopes, expectations. It was a thing of beauty. They began to imagine their lives once again as normal human beings-
pursuing their hopes and dreams as children of God, being able to provide for their family.
But quickly their childlike expectations were drowned out by their fear as they
exclaimed, “oh no, brother, we could never afford to start a new salon. We have no money.”
“Neither do we, my friend” I quickly responded, “but our heavenly father owns all of the money in the world, so let’s trust in Him.”
We found them a beautiful place in a safe area here in Kathmandu. I put my real estate
hat back on and noticed the high traffic counts, became aware of the large patio space we could turn into a little sitting area for coffee and tea, I negotiated rent for them, and we talked to carpenters about building out the space. I laughed inside as I felt like I was back in the real estate business for a minute! My man Hammy would be so proud.
When I was mentored by Hammy Davis, he always told me to give things away for free-
market knowledge, personal contacts, tricks I would learn along the way. I didn’t quite
understand him at first, because at times his giving was so liberal and unmeasured. I saw the man give away more commissions to nonprofits in my first year of real estate than the average real estate agent would make in one year. It was truly amazing and inspiring. “Just give it away Bru!” he would always say…Of course there was no real estate commission in this transaction, but the
joy, peace, and honor I had walking with Francis and Riana was worth far more than any money I ever made selling buildings.
This was the greatest Real Estate transaction I had ever done. Hands down. “Period. End of paragraph, Bru!” as Hambone would say. I teared up a bit thinking about how much Hammy would have loved to work with Francis and Riana. One day they will
meet one another I know .
Just the other day Francis and Riana celebrated an enormous grand opening for their brand-new salon. Fresh paint, new barber chairs, shiny brand-new mirrors lit up the place almost as much as their enormous smiles. OUR GOD IS FAITHFUL! And He longs to see His children
provided for, especially in their times of deepest despair. Every penny for their new salon was provided for by a loving and all providing God. With just a few emails our loving and generous donors supplied the funding needed for the project. How GREAT IS OUR GOD!
“My God will fully supply whatever you need, in accord with his glorious riches in Christ
At times we learn things in our life and have no idea why we are learning them or when they will have meaning in our lives. Thank you, Hambone! “Just give it away!” I love you and miss you!